I'm a 24 year old girl living in India. I'm fed up with the people around me nagging 24x7 with questions like "why don't you get married?" "Aren't you getting proposals?" "Aren't you old enough to get married?" Honestly, I need to figure out what I want to do with my life first. Then I need to find a man I can spend the rest of my life with. I don't need an arranged marriage. If I'm incapable of finding a man I can tolerate and vice versa, I will remain unmarried. That's all.
I need some help explaining to people what I feel. They only hear what they want to hear. Some even think I'm mentally sick.
1. People are meant to say things, that's all they can do. Believe me you can't shut those many mouths.
2. You are right in your view point. Its your Life. Your Marriage, Your wish.
3. You don't want a arranged marriage, that's alright. By end of the day you are the only person responsible for your after married Life.
4. In India, people still believe that by getting their daughter married early, they get to win a virtual billion dollar championship trophy. I find Life like a product with no warranty, still people think that they brought a extended warranty for their daughter's Life by getting her married early. Its a overrated concept.
5. Do follow your dreams. Every single Man & Woman have all rights to follow their dreams.
6. Being single is not a symbol of a looser, Being married is not a symbol of a Winner. Sooner or Later Life imposes its policy of equality. Some are just ignorant.
The day your Heart is ready to get married is the right age for you to get married. This age for getting married is a variable, not a constant value. God has tailored relationships & Life lessons for each Human & the journey is going to be interesting, if not a replica of others Life.
Actress Suhasini Mulay got married at the age of 60. Its not the age that matters in a marriage, but the Hearts.
I need some help explaining to people what I feel. They only hear what they want to hear. Some even think I'm mentally sick.
1. People are meant to say things, that's all they can do. Believe me you can't shut those many mouths.
2. You are right in your view point. Its your Life. Your Marriage, Your wish.
3. You don't want a arranged marriage, that's alright. By end of the day you are the only person responsible for your after married Life.
4. In India, people still believe that by getting their daughter married early, they get to win a virtual billion dollar championship trophy. I find Life like a product with no warranty, still people think that they brought a extended warranty for their daughter's Life by getting her married early. Its a overrated concept.
5. Do follow your dreams. Every single Man & Woman have all rights to follow their dreams.
6. Being single is not a symbol of a looser, Being married is not a symbol of a Winner. Sooner or Later Life imposes its policy of equality. Some are just ignorant.
The day your Heart is ready to get married is the right age for you to get married. This age for getting married is a variable, not a constant value. God has tailored relationships & Life lessons for each Human & the journey is going to be interesting, if not a replica of others Life.
Actress Suhasini Mulay got married at the age of 60. Its not the age that matters in a marriage, but the Hearts.
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